Monday, November 20, 2006 @ 10:19 PM

travelling is nice......
just came back from taiwan, quite a china-liked country. motorcycles and cars were everywhere and their traffic rules aren't very good. so, crossing over to the other side of the road is really scary.

after watching 2 movies on the plane,im in taiwan! upon landing, the stewardess announced that the temp outside the plane was 21 degrees which was cool and nice so i started to get excited. BUT the first word in my mind when i came out from the airport is 'chey', because THE TEMP IS NOWHERE COOLER AND NICER! anyway, everybody travelled another 2 hours plus to taichung. that was the time for everyone to Zzzzzzzzzz.

taichung had a really huge night market just like the one at taipei. shopping at that market was enough, we spent 2 hours at the market on the first night and 6 hours on the last night. do you know something, we haven't finish shopping at that place! just like the one in taipei, we went there several nights and we eventually need to rush for the last train because WE HAVEN'T FINISH OUR SHOPPING!

meeting some celebrities at the night market is really really possible. certainly not some very very very famous singer. i've met b.a.d and tension at taipei and pin guan at taichung. pin guan was having his autograph session and his 'live' singing was really great. tension appeared at the night market really gave me a shock. my cousin nearly tripped and fall when she saw them, i think she was far too excited.
had dinner at a supposedly five star hotel on the second night. there's some performance which includes a boyband and a dancing group. everyone was enjoying their food and they are making a scene up on the stage. i supposed it was noise and not music. (will upload the photo of the dance group on the next post cuz they are really 'sexy'). HAHA.

yeah yeah, nothing much to buy at the night market, only a pair of shoe for me. sis bought more things while mum bought lots of snacks. overall, i tink taipei is a better place to shop than in taichung. :)

Friday, November 10, 2006 @ 10:13 PM

yes yes, people do fireback when they realised that someone talked about them, that's very very natural. when this happens, both parties actually admits that they are talking about each other. Friends can definitely shows care and concern to one another and even help solving one's problem, but definitely NOT trying to make things more complicated by giving anymore unnecessary commments when things actually don't concerns them at all. as a friend, you should lend your listening ears to your friends who had problems and help solve matters and not make things more complicated.

i do admit that i hate or dislike someone because my friends were being hated by some other people. thinking back now, i felt kind of a silly thing to do because i dislike or even hate someone who did not do any harm to me lah, in addition, i realised that i've not gained a friend by doing this but eventually, i've lose a friend. yes, people would have easily take sides by listening to your friends' stories and everything, the immediate reaction would be, you will start to suspect the person and slowly, hate or dislike the person. but, when things became alright, you would start to forgive and forget. im sure no one would like to live in a life of hatred right? everyone would like to lead a happy life with no worries.

sometimes, when you realised that someone had 'fired' at you. it's normal for you to act agitatedly but of course not in the sense that you start cursing your supposedly-friends to death or something else. yes, everybody would say anything up in their mind when they were angry but at least SOME would take back their words when they found out that they were sort of too harsh, if you were one of those people who doesn't take back the words, then nobody would force you to and maybe you would realise your mistake some time later? who knows. someone told me, in secondary school life, there are sure some friendship problems but everything would be fine as we grow up and experience more, thus we are all able to forgive and forget by then.

i know lots of things had been happening these few days which doesn't concerns me and also other people. being a friend of a involved party, i would like to listen to the things which happened and care for a friend. i do listen but i don't take sides as i'm not involved. so all of us who listened, DID NOT hate anyone. like i've said, some people on this earth would take sides easily and start adding unnnecessary comments to go with the other party. is it because you wanted to be a closer friend to them or some other motives or purely wanted to help your friends or some others? i don't know the answer, only you knows it.

friends can be really irritating sometimes, like me, i often irritates my friends necessarily, vice versa. AHHAHA. even if one really gets pissed off, showing of attitude is not avoidable but in addition of harsh words, i tink it's a little too....much. thats the character of some people on the earth, i've not much thing to comment on.

asking people to be neutral but not yourself when you said that you are one. people who know what im talking about would know that you are lying.

anyway, like people said, this is my blog which allows me to write anything i prefered. if u have any comments, go ahead and talk behind my back or even in the blog of yours. im just writing how i feel.

BYE! :)
I LOVE MY FRIENDS! :)
AHHAHA! :)